What do you do when it is broken?

What do you do when it is broken? What do you do when a relationship took an unexpected turn? When there was an argument, a disconnect of sorts. What do you do? Throw it away? In the American culture, people throw things away when they are broken. When the blender...

The True Purpose of Relationships

When we enter into a relationship we enter sacred terrain. We are invited into the deepest layers of the other person’s being, although, neither people involved have any conscious awareness of that happening. And maybe would not agree to doing so, if they were aware...

Our most Priced Possession

I can’t stand the emotional abuse “spiritual and kind” people are dishing out to each other on a daily basis without having a clue. As if it was normal, as if it was ok to hurt each other and being completely oblivious about it. I very much subscribe to the...

The Big Lie About Love

I am not totally sure what the mainstream idea of love relationships is or is trying to portray, but it sure doesn’t work as a model for functioning relationships. The ideas we are fed in movies and so on, is not based on what the lover archetype offers us as a map....

As Promised

As promised, I am sending you here more info and details on how women and men perpetuate really painful relationship dynamics and how to break out of that, once and for all. We, the human race, are ready for something new. Something drastically new, something that...

Empowering The Sensitive Men

Most women want a man who is caring and attuned to her feelings. Someone who relates to her deeply and validates her feelings and meets her with empathy. Would you agree? What I am learning from my male clients, is that they don’t really feel all that safe around...