I would like to share with you about a topic that has been near and dear to my heart, for since I can remember. (I will tell you another time, why at age 6, I thought I wanted to raise 10 sons).

As far as I see it, neither the feminine or masculine energies and qualities have been embodied and expressed on this planet in an empowered fashion. For the last few thousand years, the masculine energies may have been in-power; however, in my humble opinion, those energies have not been in an em-powered state.

In an empowered state we care for the whole, in an in-power state, we can take advantage of, overpower and violate others.

Through this time period of men being in-power over women, a lot of damage was made. Sorry to say that, and I don’t mean to blame or accuse anyone in particular. Violence, war, rape, abuse, the denying of rights to vote, to an education, to freedom was common place, and in many parts of the world this is still the case.

I find that there is a lot of pain, anger, dispair and resenntment as a result of that history. Also, a lot of confusion. In both, women and men. A history, that we all are carrying in our DNA (more about that in another letter) and are therefor intimately affected by it.

You may wonder how or why this would be relevant to you, or how this may have affected you and most of all, where am I going with this.

Well, first, I am going to Baton Rouge, Luisiana and then Warsaw, Poland with this. Where I will be leading deep emotional workshops in healing that rift, healing that pain, anger and confusion, and start integrating the divine masculine and divine feminine qualities. Click here for more information.

Why? Because these wounds affect all of us, everything we do. Our relationships (regardless of our sexual orientation), our businesses, our jobs, our schools, our communities are all formed and shaped by these dynamics in one way or another. And our potential of what is available and possible is massively strangled by the unresolved issues. A new way of living and thriving together can’t be created without healing those wounds.

We, women and men, have been blaming each other for centuries. You are too this, you are too that, you did this, and I didn’t do that. We can blame each other until the cows come home and the problem with that is, that the cows will come home, but the farmer and the farmer’s wife will still be going at it in a cold war, or maybe have an outright open war – who knows.

It is a complex territory. Blame wont solve it. Pointing fingers wont solve it. Only careful, loving, attentive, open minded peeling of the layers whilst integrating the divine versions of the masculine and feminine energies, will get us to where we all want to be. Freedom, peace, happiness. And that is what I have set out to do.

Well, stay tuned. There is more to come and I am super excited to share it with you.